HAVE YOU HAD FRIENDSHIPS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD OR A FEW OF THEM?  MAYBE YOU HAVE ONE NOW. I'VE HAD THAT TOO, THROUGH NO FAULT 

OF MY OWN - IT SEEMED TO FOLLOW ME FOR SOME REASON. A FEW GOOD FRIENDS MOVED AWAY - THAT LEFT ME WITH THE DIFFICULT ONES.

I'VE DECIDED TO GIVE IT A BREAK and OPT FOR PLEASANT ACTIVITIES FOR SOME MONTHS. FRIENDSHIPS THAT AREN'T RIGHT FOR US CAN WEIGH US DOWN WITH NEGATIVE ENERGY. PLEASANT HOBBIES OR ACTIVITIES ALONG WITH HIS PRESENCE, CAN RESTORE OUR ENERGY AND REFRESH OUR MINDSETS.

I'M PLACING A FEW POEMS HERE, THINKING YOU MAY RELATE WITH ONE OF THEM OR DERIVE ENCOURAGEMENT IN SOME OF THESE WORDS

AND COMMENCE A PATH OF HEALING IN A SIMPLE AND NATURAL WAY WITH JESUS. HE LOVES YOU AS MUCH AS HE LOVES ME AND I'M

EXPERIENCING A SENSE OF NEW FOUND FREEDOM. THERE IS EVERY REASON YOU CAN MAKE A RECOVERY IF YOU MAKE SOME RIGHT DECISIONS

TOGETHER WITH THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL - HE CAN ALSO MAKE YOU WHOLE.  HELP YOURSELF TO NATURE, IT WILL MAKE YOUR PEACE GREATER.

PAGES THAT ARE COLOR-CODED WITH RED PRINT AT THE TOP  ARE NOT MEANT FOR YOU. THOSE PAGES ARE TO RELEASE PRESSURE FOR THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN LIVING WITH FRIEND'S DEMANDS. THE PAGES WITH BLUE PRINT ARE FOR YOU, THEY ARE GENTLE AND MILDER. CONCERNING FRIENDSHIPS.

I WISH TO HELP CHRISTIANS IN DIFFERENT WAYS.

Giving My Resignation

It was not your communications

but lack o them, I'm now in resignation.

I've made a decision

my thoughts no longer in derision.

Friends in future times, do be wise

I'm precious in God's Eyes.

I will no longer walk that path

I will choose Friends that last.

No longer those that make me feel sad

but only those that make me glad.

They don't have to be perfect but better and wise.

This should be no surprise

I'm of to better days!


Janet Vargas © March 2020

Some Friendships – A Blizzard

It felt like a blizzard on a cold winter’s night

Their conscience and feeling out of sight.

The way they seldom replied to texts

I really found this to be reckless.

I’m not going back to that

It stressed me to the max.


I’m looking forward to better times

Where the weather is more often fine.

No more my energies sapped

I’m getting my life back on track.

I wish to come into a spacious place

My thoughts no longer spaced

By lack of consideration

I’m not a candidate or fragmentation.


Those communications made me less than whole

Now I’m looking after my soul.

Bringing all the good things in

Gladness and harmony once more a win.

Pleasant activities, my peace restored

For Joy, pure Joy, I wish for more.


No more my spirit confined

To when they were out of line.

Dear Jesus thank You for Your Grace

You’ve brought to me a sweet solace

For You are pleasant company

And it feels so good to be Free.


 Janet Vargas © March 2020

Don’t Settle For That

Don’t settle for Friendships where Communications

feel like a torniquete on your spirit.

It’s really quite damaging and careless.

Peace to you dear Friends.


I will no more my friendship lend

To those who wish to be lazy and slack

I’ve given that kind of thing the sack.


You’ll experience more Peace if you do the same

No-more in their presence remain.

For they’re absent most the time

This behavior is out of line.


Yes see things as they really are

Seek Friendship with Jesus the Bright Morning Star.

He will take you on from there

He’s the One who really does care.


Bathe your spirit in His Heart

And Peace shall no more part.

He experienced lots of moments sad

He will make your spirit glad.


I have chosen this way

His Kindness I cannot repay.

Yes, Peace to you dear Friends.


 Janet Vargas © March 2020

Be Fair - Be Wise

In Friendship there's both happy and sad

some make me more often sad than glad.

When they expect me to take their problems on

in addition to my own.

It's really unfair, I do declare

God alone has shoulders for theirs and mine.

There's no more energy for endless confiding

I wish to be in peace residing.

It's a matter of preservation

I'm now in resignation

from so many things that made me sad

so make my spirit glad.

Those who wish to be Friends

my Friendship I lend

to those who are fair and wise.


Janet Vargas © March 2020